"Now I may be wrong, but to my knowledge the bible never tells us God has “the one” out there for you like so many christians will tell you. It is as if we think God will violate a persons free will just so he can conclude some divine game of matchmaking. No, I think God isnt necessarily concerned with “who” you love as much as he is on “how” you love them. Whatever girl or guy you marry… They become “the one” because you chose them. God does not say to us “Hey you! Marry this person and like it!” He says “who do you want to make the one? Let me teach you how to love them in a holy and passionate way.” You are in control of your own love life, dont be tugged around by the nose by prophetic words, quivers in your livers or the anticipation of a divine finger pointing you to the right girl. Choose wisely, but more importantly, love wisely."